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Overjoyed to share my story on Fox 59! A big thank you to Lindy Thackston and Dr. Michael Tillery for coming along beside me to educate viewers about the importance of oral cancer screenings!

Read My Glossectomy and Oral Cancer Story

I’ve never been at a loss for words, and surviving oral cancer has given me so much more to say.

Hi. I'm Melissa. In 2020 I was diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma, a form of oral cancer that presented itself as a nickel-sized tumor inside my tongue. By God’s grace, I was connected with a dream team of doctors including the brilliant Dr. Michael Sim at University Hospital in Indianapolis. Dr. Sim performed a glossectomy - a surgery that required removing part of my tongue, which ultimately saved my life.

I have never been at a loss for words. In fact, I have a communication degree and a certificate in social impact storytelling. I also enjoy public speaking, singing in our church praise band and using my voice for patient advocacy. I just love to talk and surviving oral cancer has given me so much more to say.

I have taken great care to design this website without the scary statistics and survival rates I encountered researching oral cancer. Instead, the mission of Simply Spoken Life is to share my journey, from precancer through glossectomy recovery, so others preparing to clear the same hurdles can see what healing and getting better look like.

 FAQs

  • A glossectomy is the surgical removal of all or part of the tongue. It is performed in order to curtail malignant growth, such as oral cancer. Often only a portion of the tongue needs to be removed, in which case the procedure is called a partial removal or hemiglossectomy.


  • No. I’m not a doctor. But I have a team of incredible care providers listed in my Partners link. I know each of them would be more than happy to help any individual managing an oral health concern. Otherwise, you should not take anything I have written or shown on this website as advice on how to manage your own physical, mental or emotional health.

  • My faith, family and friends helped me through. Researching my disease prior to treatment might have stolen my hope, except that I'm a child of God. When cancer interrupted my plans I learned to labor to rest in His healing promises and partnered with a dream team of doctors who facilitated my successful recovery.

  • Yes, rather quickly. I was sent home from the hospital with a feeding tube in my nose. It was very manageable and was removed by a nurse just six days after surgery. During that same appointment, I was given the okay to start eating real food. I started with soup, protein shakes and other liquids. (I probably could have managed chewing but was being gentle with myself and my new tongue.) By the second week after surgery I started integrating soft foods like bread with peanut butter and thinly sliced deli meats. Eating normally again was a blessing. It was also a bit of a mind game for me. I’ll explain…

    I welcomed my newly rebuilt tongue like a newborn baby. Though it was strong and functioning, it also seemed tender at first. I joke that an adult-sized fork seemed like a lethal weapon coming toward my mouth. Fortunately I found baby forks and spoons in the back of our utensil drawer from when our son was a toddler. I used a baby fork to eat for the first two-years following my procedure. Using the smaller utensils helped me advance to eating salads, cooked meats and other solid delicacies without the fear of jabbing my precious new tongue.

  • Yes. I was able to coordinate words within a week of my procedure. Sure, I sounded a little funny. But people could understand me. While I was still in the ICU, I discovered some workarounds for communicating by using text-to-talk apps on my phone.

  • Yes. I have always enjoyed strength training including rowing, TRX and sandbag workouts. I’m also an avid walker. I worried I wouldn’t be able to return to TRX or the sandbag because of the pressure those exercises require from the wrist and forearm - both of which were affected by my procedure. However, by following the postoperative protocols for healing and scar care, the flap of skin and artery that were taken from my arm (to rebuild my tongue) healed beautifully. I was back to doing the full range of strength workouts I enjoy within eight-months after surgery.

    I have to give a huge shoutout to my dear friend Taylor Harris who continues to facilitate my ability to weight train. Taylor is a Certified Massage Therapist, Muscular and Scar Care, Soft Tissue and Mobility Specialist. Taylor massaged and softened the muscles and tissue under and around my scars starting at six-months post op. I continue to see him every couple of months for maintenance. You can learn more about Taylor on the Partners page.

  • Yes. Provided my schedule allows and the logistics work, I love speaking to groups about my remarkable healing journey. My messages can be catered for specific organizations and age groups.

Less Than 2-Weeks After Surgery

Clearly my speech is better than my description of the actual procedure. Here's my ‘non-medical attempt’ at explaining to my family what I’d been through and how I was feeling just 13-days post op. (Special thanks to our son Ryan for the comic relief.)

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